Make Expectations that are Inbound...

Today i went for the film "Abiyum Naanum" it portrays the relationship between dad and daughter..a very sentimental n emotional movie worth watching...had tears in my eyes ya at times i am emotional..I am working towards improvising on emotional quotient...Well Apart from my thoughts to have a daughter like princess and take the dad in that film as a role model to bring up my daughter....

Film thought me a crystal clear lesson " Expectations should be Inbound "...

Like when u expect some thing from external entity like your friend or a relative it might r might not be satisfied because they have their own expectations on themselves and u might r might not go along with their frequency..

But if you start expecting from yourself ...here in this case you are the major influencing factor so there is a high probability of satisfying your expectations...

So i say apart from Care and love you better expect less from your loved ones and start expecting more from yourself that will reap you rich benefits....

I too have lots of personal experience on this.....

Media acts Irresponsible - Barrier for Nations Growth

I have been watching CNN,Times-Now,all those news media for a quiet a long time..A single thing which i always find in common is the way they boost up things beyond reality... if its like there is a expected fall of 2 % in market... they say market is expected to crash...But they dont even add that it will bounce back soon which would happen in real sense.

Same has been noted in Mumbai terror attacks and Satyam scandal..Mumbai attack was not so big as 9/11 but they named it as India s 9/11....That have created so much agitation among people even though we had enough armed men to tackle the problem.

In Satyam scandal they are following the same..Apart from creating agitation among people..they make India an inappropriate place for foreign investments which obviously results in down turn of economy..but that should not be happening because India has rigors to face these challenges

Indian Economy has not become so much bad compared to other nations we are just devoid of increase in growth rate while other nations are in negative growth.. i mean they are degrading but we are stable..Its fairly enough to withstand the turbulent times instead of degrading..Yes we are on the right track withstanding tough times seeing problems as challenges and have been learning lessons out of it..

With all those recession stuffs if Infosys could produce 33% increase in profits and even TCS n Wipro performs better.... Then i think the IT sector must havent been ruined to core..there is lot of room for growth but media says IT wont boom back for years.Media always good at expecting the unexpected in a negative sense but never thinks of positivity in it..

So Media should nt be only source of information for decision making in case of individuals shaping their career ..People have to go beyond the TV screens and think with Pro activeness to cruise long leaps in tough times..

A Small thing brought Significant change in thoughts...

These days I was feeling bored because of holidays... not having much stuff to do...I am passionate about becoming an Human Resourse Manager (ofcourse a leader too) thats all i know.... But i have nt had any clear action plans as of what to do to acheive it...I have been struggling for quiet a long period of time....
Just today i started thinking of next step towards climbing great heights... I came out with lots of option like working for as a trainee HR consultancy firm ..doing a SAP- HR package..BIM Bangalore s PGDBM course..LIBAs Executive Diploma programs...and what not there are lots of opportunities around...
Now as i came out with multitude ideas next i have to analyse each and every option to select the best to build a bright career....
Nothing much the above were the outcome of these words "Stay simple and consistent,observe things and analyze u will refine your strengths and character" that were on recent gtalk status message of Ashok,a good friend of mine...

Thanks a billion Ashok for making me think out of lots of opportunities...

2009 has its own Challenges...

When majority of the people start this New year with great component of fun i was cornored to kick start this year with a bed rest..Though i m confident enough that this year would assure me with enough challenges,opportunities,lessons,fun,growth,prosperity and above all pink of health. I have my own dreams and goals to acheive for this year.Have to align myself towards acheiving them and even i need to maintain balance between various components of life.Its really a big deal and need lot of effort to empower myself and keep growing...Need of the hour is clarity of thoughts..Action plans..and being dynamic..have to work towards it to keep life going great...